Lying on the stones

Hey, did u really get tested after last time u had sex?

Hey, of course I did, that's something I don't play with at all. Quick question... why were you not conformable with giving me a blow job but okay with us having sex? Do you not like oral?

Well yeah, I like giving and receiving oral sex! But it is one-sided so it requires a bit more trust. I only just met u like 1 hour before so i didnt feel ok doing it in that situation. Tbh I really didn’t think we were gonna have sex there and then!

Whether you planned to have sex or not, you knew that it was a possibility so its also your responsibility to carry protection.

I really didn’t think we were gonna have sex outdoors!

You told me you wanted to lie on the stones...

I didn’t say that. I said the stones weren’t comfortable to sit on.

If they not comfortable to sit on then how can they be comfortable to lie on?

Look, I understand you are stressed bec we had unprotected sex, and we both know it isn’t a good idea. But I am very sure of what I am saying. Can I call you?

I am on the train.

Do you know how many times a woman is turned on, and she gets nothing?! Well maybe I can tell you about it sometimes.

Please stop games, say what it is and speak up. All this riddle talk isn't necessary. I am not into silly games.

Me neither!

So speak up then. I hate when people are not honest. Acting all scared. Speak up!

I said I will call you but you said you are on the train. I am composing a message, jeez!

Speak up and tell the truth, shouldn't be necessary to compose and phase messages a certain way to tell the truth. People only do that when they're lying!

So oral requires trust but penetrative sex doesn't?? Please make it make sense!

Well...would u have given me oral sex there and then?

No.

Bcse its different.

Why? Why is it different?

It just is.

That's why i said give me a bj to save all this commotion. You're a grown woman but u were shy to give oral?!?

So u're saying it is my fault we ended up having unprotected sex bec I didnt give u a blow job?? Look I understand you are stressed now, but don’t blame it on me.

Are you on the pill or contraception?

Is it a yes or no answer?

No.

No need for the prolonging.

I am typing…!

U should've just been straight forward from the start, all this talk of 'I'll speak to you later and tell u'.

Bec I can sense this conversation is heated now and I dont like it. We shouldnt be arguing about this. We are both adults and are aware of the risks. I just dont like u attacking me for it and implying it is my fault.

No need to paper it up or make it sound nicer than it is. I prefer people just cut to the chase!

What do u want me to be honest about exactly?

All this talk but when it came down to it, you didn’t want to do it.

What? Give you a bj??

Yes!

And I explained why. What do you think about what I said? About the fact that you wouldn’t have given me oral sex in that situation, on the Thames beach!!

In order for me to do the oral, I would need to receive first.

Why should I be the first one to give it?

Bcse the sex wouldn't have happened if you had given me oral sex. But u looked at it too deeply when that wasn't the moment to do that.

The things u say are so sexist and it is actually making me so mad.

Check ur ideas, man!

Why is it obvious that a woman should give a man a blow job first, before he is willing to give her oral sex. Its deeply wrong.

It is deep.

U need to check yours.

Tell me on what grounds it is ok then.

U allow me to enter inside you but not give me a blow job lol.

Lets leave it at that.

I could say, I was the one doing all the work when penetrating you. That was equal because you didn’t do anything.

If u want to be a feminist then be with a woman.

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